Guides

Writing words, matching, first messages — three pieces that explain lashou.

How to choose your ten words

The three most common mistakes when writing ten words: adjectives, writing for an audience, avoiding contradiction. Concrete guidance and a self-check.

4 min read

How matching actually works

lashou's match score is not a count of shared words. Here is how we read your words, write the portrait, compute the 0–100% resonance, and what we never show the other person.

5 min read

What to say in the first message

The hardest part of accepting an invitation is the first line. Three openers you can use as-is, and why 'hi' almost always fails.

3 min read